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WHAT IS MEMORIALIZATION?
Memorialization is the remembrance a loved one either through
a formal or informal ceremony. Sometimes it is a just a short
moment of silence on special occasions--such as a birthday or
an anniversary.
Other
times, it can include special remembrance items, such as jewelry,
trees, books, collections, etc.
Each family will determine what may be helpful and important in
remembering that special person who has left a void.
Memorialization can also means personalization. Just as each one
of us is unique during our lives, at the time of death that difference
should be remembered and celebrated.
Families
have the opportunity to create a ceremony that acknowledges how
important the loved one was within their lives and within the
community. In the past, funeral services were often dictated often
by religious ritual and distinct traditions--viewing's, wakes,
church services, burials, etc..
These
traditions in ceremony served as a way for us to acknowledge a
persons death in a prescribed fashion.
Today, families are able to choose between traditional services,
creating a completely personalized service--or combining the best
of both. In particular, family members and friends are taking
part in the formal services by offering either poems, readings,
and or music.
Displaying
collages of photos and mementos that
were special to the deceased can be very comforting. Personalizing
items of remembrance such as memorial folders with favorite passages,
hymns, or writings has become significantly important.
Creating
just that “special moment” during the formal service--such
as releasing balloons, doves, or lighting
candles, can be comforting. Sharing ones memories is always
appreciated as well. Most funeral homes and clergy are very willing
to help families explore their options.
The more involved that grieving families and friends participate
in the memorialization process, the closer they will be to healing.
The death of a loved one is not something to sit back and watch
as it happens around us. It is a life event, much like a birth
or marriage.
To
fully participate is to bring meaning to the loss. "What
we keep in memory is ours forever".
For more information on memorialization, please see our bronze
and or granite grave marker
section of our web site. If you wish to talk with one of our consultants
you may call us toll free at 1.877.723.5677,
we would be happy to personally help you arrange a very personalized
memorial fitting for your loved one.
Some
of our standard bronze grave markers sizes are as follows:
| Ledger
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x 72" |
24"
x 30" |
20"
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60"
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56"
x 16" |
44"
x 14" |
44"
x 13" |
36"
x 13" |
36" x 10" |
32"
x 13" |
32"
x 10" |
28"
x 16" |
24"
x 42" |
24"
x 16.75" |
24"
x 14" |
24"
x 13" |
24"
x 12" |
22"
x 10" |
20"
x 10" |
20"
x 10" |
16"
x 24" |
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24" x 16.75" |
24"
x 12" |
22" x 10" |
20"
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Here
is a small selection of books through
Amazon.com
to perhaps help with your loss.
These
miniature bronze grave markers samples can be
designed to many various sizes.
Adding
a Granite Base is like framing a picture.
Place
"Two free emblems" on your bronze grave marker.
We will look through our database for you. e.g.. Masonic, Eastern Star,
Military
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Palliative Care for All Cancer? Not Yet... A study published in the Journal of the American Medical Association (JAMA) reported that although most cancer centers now have a palliative care program, significant gaps and delays in the delivery of care remain. Â The study looked at the availability of palliative care at U.S. cancer centers, both those designated as National Cancer Institutes (NCI) and non-NCI centers, as well as executives attitudes towards palliative care. Â The results showed that palliative care was more readily available and integrated into National Cancer Institute hospitals than non-NCI cancer centers but that services varied widely.
Palliative care should be a standard cancer treatment, not just a last-ditch effort to promote comfort at the very end of life. Â Palliative care is expert pain and symptom management, focusing on the entire person rather than just the illness. Â Don't cancer patients deserve this kind of treatment at the time of diagnosis, continuing throughout the trajectory of their illness whatever the outcome? Â The American Society of Clinical Oncology has a vision to have full integration of palliative care services as a routine part of cancer care by the year 2020. Â We have a long way to go if we are going to meet that goal. Â The first step is to recognize palliative care as part of a comprehensive cancer treatment plan, not just as end-of-life care.
The ideal scenario is for a patient to be able to visit a cancer center for expert chemotherapy, radiation, surgery, or any combination of cancer treatment. Â While at the center, the patient has a consultation with a palliative care team. Â The palliative care team would oversee the patient's physical comfort while going through aggressive treatments, offer emotional and spiritual counseling and support, and be available to discuss end-of-life wishes if and when the time comes. Â If cancer treatment is successful, the patient benefits from expert pain and symptom management and support. Â If cancer treatment fails, the transition to hospice care is smooth and the patient is more prepared for what lies ahead.
I hope to see more cancer centers and major medical centers alike integrate palliative care into their cancer treatment programs. Â Do you have an exciting palliative care program at your hospital? Â Share below!Palliative Care for All Cancer? Not Yet... originally appeared on About.com Palliative Care on Wednesday, March 17th, 2010 at 17:22:37.Permalink | Comment | Email this
Parents May Consider Hastening their Children's Death An article in Time magazine told of a small study led by doctors at the Dana-Farber Cancer Institute in Boston of parents of children who had died of cancer. Â Of 141 parents interviewed, 19 said they had thought about asking a doctor to hasten their child's death. Â Thirteen of the parents reported that had actually discussed hastening their child's death with caregivers. Â An additional 34% of parents said that in retrospect, they would have considered hastening their child's death if the child had been in uncontrollable pain.
This was a small study but I think it speaks volumes about a parents need to see their child comfortable. Â It's unthinkable to loose a child to cancer and many parents don't want to "give up" on a cure but when it's inevitable that the child will die, parents want nothing more than to spend as much quality time with their child as possible, as long as the child is not suffering. Â This is why palliative care for children is so essential, and why California has passed an initiative that guarantees children access to palliative care while receiving concurrent curative treatments. Â The Senate version of the Medicare reform bill includes such a provision as well. Â If every child has access to palliative care as standard form of cancer treatment without having to give up any other care, parents would be less likely to see their son or daughter suffer in uncontrollable pain.
The article in Time made one error that I would like to point out. Â The author writes that in a difference between treatment of uncontrolled pain for adults versus children, more adults are likely to receive palliative sedation than children. Â This makes absolute sense, since parents want to spend as much time with their child awake as possible. Â The error made was reporting that palliative sedation was morphine-induced. Â Palliative sedation is not induced by morphine, although morphine may be used to treat pain. Â Sedation is induced by sedatives, such as barbituates. Â Learn more about Palliative Sedation.
Learn more about Palliative Care for Children
The Nick Snow Act in California
Pain ManagementParents May Consider Hastening their Children's Death originally appeared on About.com Palliative Care on Friday, March 5th, 2010 at 15:16:37.Permalink | Comment | Email this
What to do With that Implantable Defibrillator? A report in the Annals of Internal Medicine looked at the incidence of patients admitted to hospice care with implantable cardioverter-defibrillators, how many of them received shocks, and how hospices were managing the devices. Â Implantable cardioverter-defibrillators (ICD's) are devices implanted under the skin near the heart that monitors the heart's activity and automatically delivers a shock if necessary. Â Patients who are admitted to hospice care with these devices still activated may receive shocks at the end of their life.
The study found that 97% of hospices responding to the survey had admitted patients with ICD's.  Only 10% of the hospices had policies on managing the ICD's and over 50% of patients with the devices had been shocked.  Less than half of patients admitted to hospice with ICD's  had the shocking mechanism deactivated.
I would be interested to know how many patients with the devices want them deactivated and how many actually want to keep the defibrillator functioning. Â If a patient is in the dying process and his heart goes into an abnormal rhythm (which would be pretty common, especially in patients with heart disease) an ICD that has not been deactivated would deliver shocks to his heart. Â This could potentially prolong the dying process and cause the patient discomfort. Â Are hospices doing enough to educate patients with ICD's about how they might impact the dying experience? Â Are hospices even addressing this issue at all? Â With only 10% reporting having policies on ICD management, it makes me wonder.
Does your hospice have a policy for managing ICD's?
Do you or your loved one on hospice have an ICD and if so, how is it being managed?
What to do With that Implantable Defibrillator? originally appeared on About.com Palliative Care on Wednesday, March 3rd, 2010 at 19:51:51.Permalink | Comment | Email this
Palliative Care Grand Rounds Now Up!! This month's Palliative Care Grand Rounds (PCGR) - a blog carnival of the best palliative care, hospice, death, and bereavement blogs - is up at Larry Beresford's Growth House blog. Â Larry has done a wonderful job of compiling the best blogs for your reading pleasure. Â Take a look at this month's installment at Growth House and check out the main PCGR site for past installments.Palliative Care Grand Rounds Now Up!! originally appeared on About.com Palliative Care on Wednesday, March 3rd, 2010 at 12:44:12.Permalink | Comment | Email this
Nearing Death Awareness: Special Knowledge that Death is Near Have you heard stories of dying patients seeing long dead loved ones? Â Or maybe you've heard stories of patients who predict when they will die and then fulfill the prophecy. Â I've experienced both of these scenarios as well as other fascinating phenomena. Â I've had a patient ask me to dress him in his tuxedo so he can grab his already packed bags and "go" just hours before he died. Â I've known several patients who should have already died but who hold on until something important is accomplished, such as the arrival of a loved one to say goodbye. Â These are wonderfully fascinating experiences - as long as you know what is happening.
Experiences like these are examples of a phenomena known as "Nearing Death Awareness". Â This concept was made popular by Maggie Callanan and Patricia Kelley, both hospice nurses who have collected stories of patients who seem to have a special awareness that death is near, and even the ability to somehow control when it will happen. Â They turned this collection of stories into a wonderful book, Final Gifts.
Often times, the phenomena of Nearing Death Awareness is overlooked or even mistaken for confusion, delirium, anxiety, or restlessness. Â Families and healthcare professionals may medicate the patient in an attempt to "calm them down" or frustrate themselves and the patient by trying to re-orient them to reality. Â When this happens, they are missing special opportunities to understand what the dying person is trying to tell them.
Are you interested in how you can recognize if your loved one is experiencing Nearing Death Awareness? Â Read more about this phenomena and find real life examples of patients who have experienced it.
Nearing Death Awareness: Â A Dying Person's Awareness that Death is NearNearing Death Awareness: Special Knowledge that Death is Near originally appeared on About.com Palliative Care on Monday, March 1st, 2010 at 13:05:09.Permalink | Comment | Email this
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